How cool is it going to be to tell all your guy friends that you're dating a stripper? Talk about upping your rep. She's hot and everyone knows it. And she's with you; she chose you! Everyone else has to pay just to see her flash some flesh, but she's with you for real. It's like winning the dating lotto.
You can tell a lot about a man by how he acts in a strip club. Does he treat it like a consequence-free environment, or does he act like the same person he is outside? So many of my co-workers at the club make no personal use of all their professional experiences observing and interacting with different types of men. In fact, I know they're ignoring this inside knowledge, because I hear at least one screaming fight on a cell phone a night in the dressing room. Some of us are thinking, "Girl, when he made you pay for two dates in a row , you should've known," or "That man is a serial stripper dater — what were you thinking? Bad boyfriends reveal themselves pretty readily whether they're dating or in the club , and I'm here to connect the dots, so you don't have to waste your time.
Called her up and chatted about this and that and had a nice little conversation with her, huh? Going out with her for lunch on Saturday, eh? Very Nice.
So you've spotted a beautiful woman who you'd love to date. But if she's an exotic dancer, that complicates things. There are lots of stereotypes you need to be aware of and ignore before you make your move, or else you'll ruin your chances of ever getting to know her better. The key is to show sincerity in a setting where the focus is often on appearance and money.